Parenting

Parenting is no child's play :(:p).  It teaches you a lot of things about life. And definitely turns you into a better person.

Frankly speaking I am feeling more matured now as compared to what I was a few years back. When I say matured it does mean I have started acting serious or anything it is just that my analysing of any situation has changed.

Now I learnt to pretend to be angry, emotional ... This teaches how this life is just a play as we are all actors in it. (OK this was copied but I believe it is true). The baby teaches how nothing is permanent .,.. Nor happiness nor sadness. Also az a person I think I understand people better now.

All in all a wonderful experience... Thanks to the almighty who has blessed me with such a wonderful gift PARENTING.

Relations

Yes i am talking about the relations between two human entities.[:)].  According to me the best relation has to be "friendship". The reason being friends are by choice they are not enforced on you.
And if we every relation has this "friendship" in them then there are going to be no differences at all.

In technical terms "For a relation, there has to be a mandatory 'friendship' edge between the two entities to maintain things healthy"

Some philosophy : "Relations are like rubber bands. The more the stress the greater the chance of extending and breaking."

To keep the tensile strength healthy we should learn to ignore and forgive. If cannot forgive then learn to forget. This would definitely give you some peace of mind. If all this not possible then atleast pretend to have forgiven ("that would give others their piece [:P] ")

Ok. That was enough of me being a philosophical [:P]. Finally its upto each one of us to decide.!!!

Things Happen for Good

Its been long i have written a post... and yes i was busy [:)] with the small wonder joining our family.

I feel more matured now [:D] and also the thinking process has more meaning to it.
I also believe things always happen for good. Though you don't realize this when things are happening with you. Be patient and keep trying is the KEY here.

I believe so because of my personal experience [:)].
Would definitely like to narrate this to you all hoping that even you would start believing "THINGS HAPPEN FOR GOOD".

Ok so the story starts with once upon a time....... i.e in 2013.... [FLASHBACK]

There were just too many things simultaneously happening in my life.

Professionally i was working with a technology that was slowly becoming out dated or you can say the scope was becoming limited. I wanted to move to a better one soon , but was not getting a good opportunity though i did possess the talent for it.

I hate being dependent on somebody... be it anybody for anything....!
And since i was entering a new phase of my life... i.e the mom's club. (Though this is a good news but somehow at that time i was with mixed feeling... since i could not get the time to workout with something professionally and was becoming more dependent.) Was on complete bed rest for the last 2 months (HOPELESS time ever...). with the only ray of light being my "baby".

Due to some function in the family i could not join back office in 6 months time and i needed another 1 month extra and as a result i had to loose my job which got me deeply upset and frustated. Frankly i wanted to join and move back to a normal life as before as soon as possible. But destiny had chosen something else for me which i realise now [:)].
With all these in hand i also had some health problems which required me to take some good rest.
I had started feeling low and kind of feeling useless that i was good for nothing....
I had to get myself up and back to normal and happy as before. I could not loose hope so easily and this is not the end of everything...!!!

I decided i had to do things step by step 1. Breathe more oxygen which will give me positive thoughts. 2. Make myself physically fit  3. Start with something which will help me gain confidence professionally.

For 1 i started with morning walk.... joined a Gym... and also started with freelancing.... and learn new technologies. This helped me gain confidence in every terms.

It was then i started getting calls for interviews .... and also got calls for newer technologies [:)]

Finally, i am physically at a better state.... got my job back (with latest technologies)... my baby is healthy and i am mentally at positive state of  mind!!!!

Moral: Things always happen for good... you just need to believe in it and start thinking positive !!!

Motivation

I was never so independent in life. All the decisions made by me were influenced by my family. This is a classic example when brought up in a completely protected family. This was the case until i came to pune and thanks to my brother who has helped me become independent (as mentioned in the previous post). I used to curse him for this earlier when i was new in PUNE. But it helps me now and i definitely need to thank him for this.

Motivation is the key to my success until now [:)]. My Dad being my biggest motivation.... then it might be about anything right from me learning to ride my car or me taking up my first job. YES YOU CAN DO IT .... only 5 words made it all. Even writing this blog has come up due to some motivation [:P]

I believe when somebody close to you motivates you it means they trust you and have faith in you and it is then the believers duty to make his belief a success. But off-course you get motivated only when that somebody shares a very special bonding in your life. I know i might not be that same lucky as until now so am trying to learn being self motivated and with time i am sure will make it.!!

Thanks to everybody who have been a strong motivation in my life till now ..... moments cherished :)

Expressions

EXPRESSIONS!!!.


Expressing oneself is such a task (at least in my case it is so.[:P]). Unlike Miss. Madhuri Dikshit who needs no words.


One such funny incident about me.
This was around 2 years back when i was leaving PUNE permanently and going back to GOA my home town to join persistent systems.
My brother a Capricorn that he is (where plans always fail) and other cousins (not Capricorns ;) ) had decided to give me a surprise farewell party (Successfully executed).
I was with mixed feelings (i meant confused as to what my expressions should be). HAPPY because i was going to my home town and SAD as i was leaving pune... a place where i learn't to be independent to an extent (Thanks to BHAI).
It was my last day in pune and i had nothing much to do (my bag packing and stuff were all DONE!!!.) except for calling up some friends in Goa to tell them i am coming and to bid a bye bye to some friends in pune. I happened to see my brother who was not acting natural (which means he was hiding something.. but i couldnt make out what) , i thought may be that was because i was leaving and he was going to be alone again for the next few months until his wife arrives.
Finally after some abnormal acts he asked me if i was interested in coming out one last time before leaving for Goa. Though i was not much interested at that moment ,just to keep his mind made it with him. Frankly speaking i wanted to visit those streets of pune , the crowd, the pollution, which was going to be a very rare scenario in GOA (except Jatra times). I mostly liked traveling on bike as far as i was not driving it [:)].


We were Off traveling towards the aundh side, i could some new buildings coming up in that area. Suddenly brother asked if i was hungry I promptly agreed LETS GO!. Then we had some yummy mouth watering Ice-Cream and then decided lets go to Pizza Hut for dinner. There was a long waiting queue there so i was reluctant about having there. I begged lets go somewhere else but this guy was adamant and said he was very much in mood of Pizza and said its going to be pizza or else nothing at all.
After a few minutes came the big surprise........ All my cousins were already inside pizza Hut waiting for us to arrive. I really liked the way they all decided to gift me such a wonderful time! This was the time i should have expressed my self saying something like  "O MY.... THIS IS SO LOVELY".

But as i already said difficulty in expressing my thoughts..... (Only people close to me know how this is) i just calmly went inside and sat next to them and had pizza, at this they all were surprised instead of me [:D :P].

I now realize how important it is to show your happiness with just some mere few words or at least with body language or EXPRESSIONS...... As the Ad in dominoz says "Kaun yaad rakhega ki kya mangaya tha... lekin kis tarah se khaya tha ye jarur yaad reheta hain!!" i now remember how we spent that time.

At least now that i know my problem will not miss this chance of saying a big THANKYOU to all you guys. I had a pleasant and most wonderful time with you guys. (Hope you guys read this.... PRANAV,GAUTAM,SANKET,SHREYA).

An attempt

I am making an attempt to preview my thoughts here. Though i am not so good at expressing myself.....!
You guys are always welcome with your views to make my posts more readable :)



Actually i always wanted to have my own blog....But i was not sure of what to write about.
Now i think i already have a few experiences in my own life which i could share (Not many really [:P]).